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Claudiopuzzo One of the most unfortunate situations that married people get into is having to “walk alone”. If you find yourself having different values, perspectives and goals from your partner on almost every ground then you’ll have to prepare for tough times. Navigating life alone is hard enough. Having to deal with a partner who’s not committed is a different kind of hardship. It’s better to get it right before you sign up for the trip of a lifetime. Marriage is an incredible journey, filled with twists, turns, and beautiful moments along the way. It's not just about reaching a destination, but about savoring every step of the path together.  Choosing a partner who shares your core values is like having a compass that guides you both in sync. When you align in what truly matters, you build a foundation that withstands any storm .  Imagine a road trip where both travelers have the same destination in mind. They appreciate the scenery, support each other during challenges, a...

Life is a journey filled with peaks and valleys, and at times, it feels like we're caught in the midst of a storm. These storms can take many forms - personal struggles, professional setbacks, or unforeseen challenges. It's easy to feel overwhelmed, to want to throw in the towel and surrender. However, it's crucial to remember that just as storms pass in nature, so do the storms in our lives. It is important to give it time and not giving up before the storm is over. First of all, It Helps to Understand the Nature of Storms: Just like natural storms, the trials and tribulations we face in life are temporary. They are a natural part of our human experience, offering us opportunities for growth, learning, and transformation. By recognizing that storms are a passing phase, we can cultivate a sense of hope and resilience. The Power of Resilience:  Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity. It's a quality that allows us to navigate through the storms with grace...

Claudia Nwankwo  Hitting the blind spot in marriage can be a challenging and delicate issue. In the context of a marriage, a "blind spot" typically refers to an area of tension or misunderstanding that one or both partners are unaware of or choose to ignore. These blind spots can potentially harm the relationship if left unaddressed.  Here are some key points to consider: 1. Lack of Communication: One of the most common causes of blind spots in marriage is a breakdown in communication. Sometimes, couples avoid discussing sensitive topics or their true feelings, leading to misunderstandings and hidden tensions. 2. Unmet Expectations: When partners have unspoken or unrealistic expectations of each other, it can create a blind spot. These unmet expectations can lead to disappointment and resentment over time. 3. Changing Needs and Desires: People change over time, and so do their needs and desires. Failure to recognize and adapt to these changes can result in a blind spot, as on...

  Marriage is often romanticized as a lifelong journey of love, connection, and shared dreams. However, as time goes on, couples might find themselves grappling with an unexpected shift in their relationship dynamics. It's the point where familiarity turns into monotony, intimacy morphs into mere coexistence, and the question arises: at what point does your spouse become your flatmate? This crucial juncture, if left unaddressed, can become a dangerous pitfall for the relationship. Let me share some takes on the signs that signal this transition and insights into how couples can rekindle their connection before it's too late. Personally, once I lose connection it’s as if I am mentally done but is there a way to make adjustments and realign? Of course. Though it is often said that the cordiality of a relationship is usually held down by one person but we all know it takes two to make it work. Where one or both parties are not willing, the union cannot stand. A situation where on...