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  Life, with all its twists and turns, often feels like a rollercoaster ride. Just when we think we have it all figured out, it throws us a curveball or takes us on an unexpected loop.  From thrilling highs to challenging lows, navigating life's ups and downs is a journey filled with valuable lessons and opportunities for growth. Life has a way of surprising us when we least expect it. Whether it's a sudden job loss, a health scare, or a broken relationship, curveballs can leave us feeling confused and uncertain about the future.  However, it is during these moments of adversity that we might discover our inner strength and resilience. Instead of resisting change, embracing the curveballs allows us to adapt and evolve. It teaches us to let go of control and embrace the uncertainty of life. While it may be uncomfortable at first, facing challenges head-on ultimately leads to personal growth and self-discovery. Just as life has its curveballs, it also has its floating times...

In a world often driven by self-interest and personal gain, the concept of letting others use you may seem counterintuitive.  However, beneath the surface lies a powerful principle: reciprocity and loyalty. Letting people use us a little is an investment in the strength of our relationships.  When we extend ourselves to others, even if it means allowing them to benefit from our resources or support, we sow the seeds of loyalty and mutual respect. Reciprocity is a fundamental aspect of human interaction, deeply ingrained in our social fabric. It is the understanding that when we give, we are likely to receive in return, albeit not always in a direct or immediate manner.  By embracing the idea of letting people use us to some extent, we create a foundation of trust and goodwill that can enrich our relationships and communities. But what does it mean to let people use us a little? It's about offering assistance, lending a helping hand, or providing resources without expectin...

Raising teenagers and preteens can be challenging, but it's certainly achievable with the right approach. Drawing from my own experience with raising two teenage girls and currently guiding a third, I've learned valuable lessons along the way.  My relationship with my girls still thrives despite  physical distance, we maintain such a strong bond such that  sometimes when I momentarily step back, they come seeking for me.  As close as we are, I have not lost my position as parent and my consent   remains the seal for every of their lives decisions. Your teenager can shock you with their actions. They sometimes do things that will leave you wondering where you got it wrong or if you really got the right baby at birth 😂 Their minds run so wild, teenagers are definitely crackheads. One key insight is the importance of fostering a deep connection with each child. It gets to a point where you can still manage the relationship even from a distance (this...