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The 3 Ps of womanity

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Author: Claudia Nwankwo

Why men cheat & 7 rules women can live by.

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A very common question among women especially those who experience heartbreak is "why?" Relationships crumble most-times as a result of cheating. Leaving the other partner wondering why, what they have done wrong or could have done better to prevent it. Hence, the question "why do men cheat?" There's yet no known reason to that. They cheat for no particular reason. Of course, a person who is tired or caught cheating in a relationship might want to cook up several silly excuses for being in the wrong but it is what it is. A silly excuse. Alot of men cheat for no reason.  They just do it and it doesn't matter how cute you look, how wealthy, supportive, good in bed, kind or how well you cook.   Give them the world, they'd still cheat. It's not about you, It's the man. A cheat is a cheat. Many men cheat because they are cheats. Simple! So, chin up Sis. Just determine what's your limit or deal breaker. Know what you can take and let him know upfro...

A review of some Nigerian loan apps

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Author: Claudia Nwankwo  As a young-workingclass-single parent, I am very upwardly mobile, business minded and low on cash. I am almost always in a fix when it comes to money affairs.  From one bill to another, I am oftentimes in need of money to beat one deadline or the other.  I used to run to my friends but I realized that mosttimes, they either do not have as well or take so much time to respond.  Li fe became alot easier when I discovered loan apps. Some of which are quite more reliable. So, yea! Nowdays, I simply use my phone and in less than 5 minutes, problem solved! The only thing that beats a no-interest loan is having to spend from the dividends of your investment(s) or savings (but for some, who hardly have enough to meet-up, therefore, have no dividends or savings) borrowing becomes an option. Taking a loan is not a very good idea (I must confess) especially when you have to pay way more than you borrowed but sometimes it's the only/best opti...

It's not just a promise, it's a debt!

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I guess we're all familiar with the phrase "Promise is a debt". Let's be clear, it is not just a promise, it's a debt! Those of you that made promises to people and failed to redeem it, imagine that the world ends today, what excuse will you give to the angels (if they asked)? If it's not a big deal,  why do we feel some kind of guilt eachtime we come across the person we made promise to? Like in relationships or marriage, promise is a kind of commitment. It's morally wrong to fail to redeem a promise and worse,  if your failure to redeem it is intentional. You may say, well... it's goodwill. Yes! Promise is usually done willfully but you can only add "good" to the "will" only when you redeem it. You may say, "but I don't have". Hmmm...bear in mind that if you treat it as a debt, you would find a way to fulfill that commitment. Remember, "where there's a will, there's always a way". ...

Coronavirus and 5G conspiracy theory, you are safer at home!

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The world woke up in 2020 only to discover that a virus which broke out in Wuhan, China towards the end of 2019 has started spreading across the globe, claiming tens of thousands of lives. With Europe and America being the worst hit at this time, the emergence of this deadly virus is crippling world economy. Giving strength to rumours and uncertainties and setting the world at the highest peak of confusion. The world is on lock down at the moment. With no cure or vaccine in sight, we've all been asked to social-distance and stay at home and adopt healthy hygiene methods (for our good and the good of all). A lot of people are complaining about hunger, some are not happy with losing their freedom. All these are understandable but what I don't understand, is the conspiracy theory that the adoption of 5G technology is responsible for this virus. Not only that, some pastors are linking the virus, proposed vaccine and again, the adoption of 5G to Antichrist. And I ask...

What you need to know about getting U. S visa in Nigeria

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Claudia Nwankwo 

It ended in praise

At the start of this decade I was living in Abuja. I went from being millionaire to being bankrupt. I abandoned 8months rent in Wuse, shutdown a salon at Utako, abandoned another salon with 6 months rent at Kado estate, a Toyota Camry and everything I had laboured for and moved back to Lagos empty handed because I had ran into too many troubles, lost my job, had a huge debt, was depressed and suicidal. I went through hell and back. Got married in a flash and ended it in a hurry. My life was a complete mess. I struggled! Ah! I did stuggle but see me here today. I haven't made it yet but in this my life's journey I have won many battles. There is really nothing too big for God. Give it time! A whole decade, nothing missing, nothing broken. My Halleluya belongs to the: Most gracious Most merciful Most holy Most high Almighty God All knowing Alpha and Omega Eternal redeemer Everlasting king Excellent Jehovah Master of the universe Maker of heaven a...