Woman, You Owe No One A Perfect Body!

The Author: Claudia

A post I read on social media broke my heart and its why a lot of ladies these days don't want to bear children. The uncertainty, the treatment they'll get for no fault of theirs is why they are afraid to venture.

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Pregnancy causes a lot of changes in women and after childbirth, your body has been through so much. This is not the time to sit around and feel bad for what should rather give you joy. Those tummy marks are the price you pay for a priceless gift. Why allow yourself to be insecure?

Struggling with saggy boobs, loose vagina, stretchmarks, tummy folds etc? Well...those are all part of the package not only for child bearing but also aging and hormonal changes. They are scars of womanity and they actually make us more beautiful.

Woman,

You owe no one a round ass, tight vagina, firm boobs or coke shape.

You owe no one a perfect body!

The problem is that most people like to seek validation of others over their private matters and if you find yourself in this category, You've already missed it.

"Where there's a will, there's always a way".

YOU don't want the marks?

Hit the gym, eat healthy, join a dance class, get body shapers, ask other women how the did (doing) it. 

Do it for your own pleasure and your health sake or for any reason as it pleases you but by all means, allow your body to breathe. 

You have nothing to prove to anybody (they don't really care anyways).

You too can look hot and sexy (if you want to) but please DO NOT succumb to self pity and don't let no one body shame or mistreat you for nothing. 

Hot and sexy is (usually) first, a function of how you feel, then how you carry yourself which is what other people are likely going to notice quickly and take a cue from. 

Living on other people's opinion is not sustainable. 

It would not only confuse your path but it also has the capacity to ruin you.

You have to be your own person.

"If you find yourself constantly trying to prove your worth to someone, you have already forgotten your value"

Banging body or not, you are a queen.

More and more women need to liberate their minds and take control of their emotions, and attitude towards life.

CONFIDENCE is one thing men have mastered over women. 

Stop feeling unattractive and undesirable. 

Don't dim that light! Open your minds to positive energy and let it flow through you. The world needs you.

Sometimes, the problem is not in what you are doing right or wrong but in what you are not doing well or enough. 

Maybe you are just not having enough sex or you are simply not slaying enough. 

Be comfortable in your own skin. Take care of yourself, Queen.

I'm not saying you should put out too much skin or over apply yourself. There's really no need for unnecessary stress and exposure, but hey! If that's who you are, your body, your world...

As long as you aren't hurting anyone else, then rock it girl!