Women Invest More In Relationships

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It's always hard to make up your mind on starting a new relationship.


Many women would hang in there just because "I dont want to go over this again". 


As much as men enjoy being "all over the place", there's hardly any woman who wants to just be sharing her body with every Tom, Dick and Harry. 


Olosho sef would be willing to "relax and be taken kiaroff" if the price is right.


Relationships may seem fun but its alot of work. 


As you go along you’d realize how hard and stressful it gets. 


It takes two people that really want it, to make the relationship work. 


There's really no manual for how to make it work for sure.


While men would love to jump into it for fear of being "zoned", women would prefer to go with friendship if they like you already because it's a whole lot more than sex and feasting for us.


When a relationship ends, the heartbreak is heavier on the woman.


A woman has to be more picky with who she dates as she also has more to lose when the relationships don't work out and this is because women actually invest more in relationships.


They have a shorter time window to date. They have more potential downsides (e.g being a single mom) so, because of this they are more in it for the long term hence they give their all.


While men usually only bring money & sex to the table, women bring sacrifices, compromise, love, kindness, selflessness and all kind of support (emotional, social, mental etc.).


They understand more of what's needed to build lasting relationships and because of this, women live longer and happier than men.


The way to balance it is for both parties to work together for greater good but alas, men just want to have fun.

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