"Divorcees do not raise responsible children"

A happy divorcee

I've heard people say "Divorcees do not raise responsible children" Lol.

Must be ment or something 🤣

The worst thing that can happen to a child is to grow up in a toxic environment.

Most of the bad adults out there are products of toxic  homes and bad parenting.  

If their parents were not abusing each other, they would be abusing their maids or other people around them.

The frequent frustration, quarrels and bitterness couples breed in their homes, live and grow with the children.

The home as the bedrock of the society is where most of the damages happen.

If your home is not loving and peaceful where your children wan learn love and peace from? 

Your children will be shaped by your character.

You are better off quietly raising your children with a belief/principles/character than in a space with conflicting ideologies.

I saw DV firsthand and I know the damage it can do to children. That's why I made the decision to walk away at the slightest sign. 

I decided that, I will not trade my peace for anything. Not for money, not for love. 

You will likely struggle without any of these but you will be happy and eventually those things you miss will fall in place.

As a divorcee, I have raised kind and thoughtful children.

They often wonder why people react aggressively or are too loud or rough for whatever reason.

They do not know how to raise their hands or their voices let alone show a kind of aggression.

My daughter comes home every year from school with the award of best behaved student. She has received the same remark here in her new school.

It's not magic.

My house, is warm and peaceful.

No frustration, no adult silliness, no toxic zone.

Whether single or a couple, ultimately, it is your parenting that will determine your children's turnout. 

If you're looking for motivation, look at my girls....look at my life.