Family is no longer what it used to be.

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Family is no longer what it used to be. 


 Family whatsapp groups can be so volatile....

 Everybody be peeptoeing around cos it can go from calm to mad in one second.

 There's always different cliques bromancing eachother.

 There's always that one person known for overflogging issues.

 There's that one person everyone else loves to avoid cos of attitude. 

 There's the one person who struggles to keep the group alive with spam messages.

 There's the 'too posh for y'all' kinda person(s)

 The 'whatever y'all decide' kinda person (s) 

 All kinds of people in the group. 

 The relationship is so synthetic you can feel it falling apart. 

 Everybody be forming cool and busy like they've got their shit together. 

Get-together's no longer a thing cos all man's hustling to out-do the other. 

 Funniest part is, we don't even realize the "rat race" has hit the family system so bad nobody has a minute to care. 

 The moment cousins, aunts and uncles start CHOOSING who they associate with, it's no longer a family.

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