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At the start of this decade I was living in Abuja. I went from being millionaire to being bankrupt. I abandoned 8months rent in Wuse, shutdown a salon at Utako, abandoned another salon with 6 months rent at Kado estate, a Toyota Camry and everything I had laboured for and moved back to Lagos empty handed because I had ran into too many troubles, lost my job, had a huge debt, was depressed and suicidal. I went through hell and back. Got married in a flash and ended it in a hurry. My life was a complete mess. I struggled! Ah! I did stuggle but see me here today. I haven't made it yet but in this my life's journey I have won many battles. There is really nothing too big for God. Give it time! A whole decade, nothing missing, nothing broken. My Halleluya belongs to the: Most gracious Most merciful Most holy Most high Almighty God All knowing Alpha and Omega Eternal redeemer Everlasting king Excellent Jehovah Master of the universe Maker of heaven a...

Author: Claudia A good number of women at one time or the other in their lives would knowingly or unknowingly date a married man. It might not be ideal but then "sugar daddy" is a thing. For some, it's a thing of fantasy. Others say it is mostly circumstantial.  Whatever the reason you decide to get involved with a man who is already committed to someone else by marriage, just know that it is mostly short-lived and has little to zero growth potentials. Here are 5 tips to help guide your relationship: 1. Set boundaries: It's always better to keep him away from your apartment just as he (most likely) would do.  Meet him at a neutral spot like a hotel or if he is keeping a special apartment for your relationship, you should have a separate apartment of your own where your friends/family can have clean access to.  This would also help you to carry-on on a clean sheet when you eventually find someone else to settle down with.    Set things straight with him, ...

They say women are more insecure than men. This new year, we are changing the narrative because we are going to be living happy and allowing our men to live happy too.  It's a live and let live year we are going into, right?  So, let the man breathe. Men know how to enjoy themselves with or without women and it's a good thing. Women should up their game.  If new year resolution is a thing for you, try this 👇 Get a job or business that can pay your bills -Increase your earning power and be financially independent. Network and get social - Connect with people of like minds and interests.  Take care of yourself - Looking good now never out if fashion. Spend your time and money on you too.  Don't get too emotional about anything - take everything one day, one step at a time. Go out with your girls, do fun things and get busy.  It's time to give your life a balance. Spread yourself well in every aspect and be happy.  Give...