Let the man breathe

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They say women are more insecure than men. This new year, we are changing the narrative because we are going to be living happy and allowing our men to live happy too. 

It's a live and let live year we are going into, right? 

So, let the man breathe. Men know how to enjoy themselves with or without women and it's a good thing. Women should up their game. 

If new year resolution is a thing for you, try this 👇

  • Get a job or business that can pay your bills -Increase your earning power and be financially independent.
  • Network and get social - Connect with people of like minds and interests. 
  • Take care of yourself - Looking good now never out if fashion. Spend your time and money on you too. 
  • Don't get too emotional about anything - take everything one day, one step at a time.
  • Go out with your girls, do fun things and get busy. 

It's time to give your life a balance. Spread yourself well in every aspect and be happy. 

Give the right amount of time and attention to your partner, your career, your kids/family, your health, your friends etc. 

If you do this well, you won't have sparetime to snoop around, you will not have the energy to nag or fight. You'd just be busy living your life happily and I can tell you for free that happiness is contagious. It carries the same power that light has over darkness. 

Self sufficiency is a good thing. It gives you the peace and comfort you deserve. I've applied it myself and e dey work.

Sisters, we are going to be busy taking positive actions and living our lives to the fullest this year.

Amen? 

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