Sis, Don’t Downplay Your Position

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I hate to see women playing victims.


If as a woman you’re wishing yourself happy Father’s Day because you’re catering to your offspring 100% then you probably have low self-esteem.


You cannot reduce womanhood to that bottom barrel behaviour.


Do you even know who you are?


You’re trying to replace a deadbeat person with your wholesome self….for what???


Is motherhood a joke to you?


Did you carry that child (for 9months) and birth the child only because of an ordinary man?


A man that you can (should actually) replace with another worthy man na im you dey drag Father’s Day with.😅


Nne, stoppeeeet!


You are a Queen, don’t downplay your position.


A mother is everything that a child needs and more. 


You do not need any man to thrive in this business.


YOU ARE ENOUGH!


Do not try to force a child on a man just because you had sex. If he didn’t ask for a child my dear, carry your cross. Women do this because they find it hard to move on. 


He doesn’t do this & that…


If he died won’t you do it? 


Abi you send you to fxck without protection?


Even in marriage (the Bible already condemned such a man then) what are you hanging around such fellow lamenting about?


MEN PLENTY O!


Sis, learn to move on and find new love interests. More importantly, learn how to enjoy sex with no strings attached especially where the man does not want attachment. 


If this go south, move on!


You are an adult. You must know what to do. You cannot be acting helpless. 


This is 2023 no woman should be crying over a mere man please!

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