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Did I Oversleep… or Did Life Just Move Too Fast?

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I can’t remember when I did my 30s.  Just yesterday, I was a teenager, full of energy, dreams, and time that felt endless. And now? I’m forty-something, trying to piece together how the years slipped through my fingers so quietly. It honestly feels like I must have overslept for a minute or someone turned the hands of the clock too fast. Because how did we get here so quickly?   One minute, you’re figuring out who you are. The next, you’re expected to have it all together—career, family, purpose, stability. And somewhere in between, entire seasons of your life pass without you fully sitting in them. That’s the part that gets me. Not just that we’re aging, but that we don’t even get to pause long enough to fully enjoy each stage before the next one arrives.  And the truth? Life doesn’t wait.  Every single day, new people are born into this world, filling spaces, taking up roles, stepping into moments we once occupied. Someone else is now the teenager I u...

Restarting my purpose in my 40s

Going back to school in your 40s is a different kind of journey. You’re not just a student. You’re a parent, a provider, a problem-solver and sometimes the emotional anchor for everyone around you. You’re writing papers after putting kids to bed, studying between responsibilities and showing up to class while life is still happening in full force. The bills don’t go on holiday, responsibilities don’t pause, everything is moving at the speed of light and exhaustion is often part of the package. But so is purpose. There’s something powerful about choosing growth at this stage of life. It’s not about proving anything to anyone. It’s about evolving and building something that aligns with who you’re becoming. For me, it’s also about stability. Life has required me to press “restart” more times than I care to admit and at this stage, I’m determined to build something that lasts. That determination is what keeps me hanging in there, even when it feels tough. Yes, it’s challenging. ...