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Inside Life!

When I tell people "live your life"...they think I'm over-emphasizing but think about it. You're never gonna have any moment twice You won't be able re-live ANY day in life. Even if you keep doing same thing over and over, day in day out, no two days will be exactly the same (even if they were it can't be fun) if you do, you'd only be holding yourself down because life in itself is not static but then again, it's up to you. However, choosing to live life basing your actions on other people's standards or validation is one of the worst mistakes anyone can make because as they say "no two heads are the same". We all carry different destinies, purpose, talents and gifts. Any attempt at hiding your shine or gift is denying the world of awesomeness and beauty of diversity. Imagine we were all one specie of animals or aliens or robots and just keep doing same thing in the same manner over and over. Sigh!  Just imagine a world with one...

Family is no longer what it used to be.

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Internet Image Family is no longer what it used to be.  Family whatsapp groups can be so volatile.... Everybody be peeptoeing around cos it can go from calm to mad in one second. There's always different cliques bromancing eachother. There's always that one person known for overflogging issues. There's that one person everyone else loves to avoid cos of attitude.  There's the one person who struggles to keep the group alive with spam messages. There's the 'too posh for y'all' kinda person(s) The 'whatever y'all decide' kinda person (s)  All kinds of people in the group.  The relationship is so synthetic you can feel it falling apart.  Everybody be forming cool and busy like they've got their shit together.  Get-together's no longer a thing cos all man's hustling to out-do the other.  Funniest part is, we don't even realize the "rat race" has hit the family system so bad nobody ha...

Media meet and greets: The ‘human’ element of media relations

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 The 'Human's Element of Media Relations  By:  Leago Monareng All too often business executives do not get to interact with editors and journalists on a more senior level and in an in-depth manner. Most media interactions are surface-based and focus on specific stories or topics of current interest. As public relations and communications professionals, we usually wait for news stories before we get in touch with the media. However, establishing a continuing relationship with the media is useful rather than just contacting them when we need to push a particular story. A good way to establish relationships with editors and journalists is to schedule a meet and greet between your clients’ executives and the media. Why should your clients meet the media? Organising a meet and greet is a great way of allowing members of the media to spend quality time with your client’s senior staff and spokespeople in order to get an in-depth understanding of their organi...

Big Boob's Syndrome: The Struggle is Real

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Internet Image The struggle with big boobs is real o! Boobs vary in sizes, what's big or small would most likely depends on your body siz e. Generally, from D cup upward is considered big. 

You First

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Claudia Nwankwo  Every good man will enjoy protecting and providing for his wife. Every good woman will enjoy making sacrifices and being under the love covering of her husband. Relationships succeed when there's strong commitment, mature collaboration and wondrous intimacy BTW two people . I think people need to relax and enjoy themselves in their relationships rather than obsessing over if it leads to marriage or not. Whether your relationship succeeds or not,  remember that nothing is more important than your individual happiness. #YouFirst

Recalling The Nigerian Civil War: My Father Was A Biafran Soldier

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By: Claudia Nwankwo The little I know about  #BiafranWar my dad told me his personal experience. He is 83years old now and still hoping that Nigeria will get it right someday. Colonel Odumegwu Ojukwu My dad, Nickson Nwankwo joined the Biafran militia which later became the Biafran Army in 1967. He was drafted to fight at calabar and then owerri front where he fought combantantly without rest for 2 & half yrs at the war front. He rose to the rank staff sergeant before his battalion was withdrawn to the rear. His batallion was redistributed and he was drafted to works as one of the escorts as to Major Gen. Phillip effiong .  Colonel Achuzia He also worked with Colonel Achuzia in the operations room as a stenographer typing friendly countrys report that were sent to friendly countries across the world.  Nickson Nwankwo (Dad)  He was Nicknamed Tankerkid in the Biafran Army. He lost his younger brother, Chukwuemeka Nwankwo (...

Dating Tips For Single Parents

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Internet Image Meeting new people and going on dates can be a herculean task. Searching for the right one is no different from any kind of search at all. It takes time and energy Meeting new people, going on fresh dates can be a weird venture even for singles let alone single parents.  "Dating is a minefield whatever your situation. When you’re a parent, things can feel even tougher". Before you begin dating it's always advisable for people to find themselves, get over the past, heal and keep a positive attitude to everything.  Bare in mind that you are not going into a relationship to seek love or find happiness but to share.  You must therefore, be happy as you cannot give what you do not have. As a single parent (whether by choice or circumstance) whatever situation you find yourself is not the end of the world. You should make deliberate effort to be committed to your own growth and happiness because you cannot afford to go into another relation...