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The art of loving.

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Claudia is the name Love is not a prize you win for just “being someone” or just “doing something”, it’s more of what you do and how you do it. Is the art in the act that makes it interesting. I recently got my daughter an iPhone 16 for her birthday. She was happy and grateful. Later, I got her a pair of AirPods. Her reaction? Pure joy. Uncontrollable excitement. The kind that lights up the whole room. Logically, the iPhone should have meant more. It costs more yea… It carries more “value” on paper but here’s the truth: while the iPhone meant more to  me (because it cost me more)  the AirPods meant more to  her and  her reaction was completely VALID. That became a teachable moment for me because it mirrors how many of us love in our relationships. We often give what  we  think is important. What  we  value rather than what truly matters to the person we love. And when our effort isn’t received the way we expect, we feel unappreciated, frustrated o...