Almost Every Relationship Has Growth Potentials, Only If You Nurture It

From my little experience with relationships, when you go digging, you will find something. Whatever you are looking for, you are likely to find.

While it is okay to look out for signs if there are toxic traits, It's better to focus on the positives.

Almost every relationship has growth potentials, only if you nurture it.

No one is easy to date,just find someone you are willing to accept their flaws and build something with them. 


There is no perfect person.

These three Cs help sustain relationships: 

• You Compromise
• You Contribute
• You Cooperate

There is really nothing like irreconcilable differences if we want to analyze it. There is either one partner being unreasonable or two people not willing to work things out.

It's not in all cases that you should run at the sign of cheating. If you care to inquire further, you may just realise that it's not exactly what you think it is.

Before you give up on your relationship, always TRY TO MAKE IT WORK first.

Remember to be thankful for the things and
people you have in your life before you lose them. Because, the ones you take for granted, someone else is praying and willing to die for.

There are three major cracks that can likely ruin a relationship. It is either internal or external or (as in most cases) both.

How you handle issues matter a lot.

If you are not failing in your duties to your partner, the way you manage issues from external factors might also help to make or mare your relationship.

Sometimes you just have to stand by your partner. 

It is not always their fault that they slip and fall to temptation (that's why its called temptation) and they may not be able to tackle these slippery affairs on their own. In that case, you may need to support your partner. After all, it's your relationship that's at stake and whether you like it or not, it's going to affect you. So, deciding to get involved, is in your best interest.

There are people who are so obsessed with you that they want to ruin whatever you have with anyone else just to get a piece of you and usually it doesn't last. With such people you and your partner need to play as a "team" to get such negative energy far from you.

It's a different ball game if your partner is a chronic cheat who pretends to be a victim of several escapades. Disrespecting you and hoping to get away with flimsy excuses and fake "never again" promises. Such partners shouldn't be tolerated.

But there are exceptions!

In a relationship where love, trust and respect exists, finding a communication /bonding strategy that works for you two would really help. 

Sometimes, you don't have to talk too much. Your body language can pass as enough communication to connect with your partner or alert him/her about your state of mind. Other times, (especially on important issues) you may have to have a straight up clear talk with your partner.

Whatever works for you two ✌️ 

One thing you must bear in mind before reacting to issues in your relationship is that you two are a team. It is easier if you understand that it is both of you against the issues and not against each other.

On love language, pet peeves and deal breakers in relationships, you just have to communicate, find that connection or middle ground that"ll give you a soft landing on any issue.

Just find how to make the best of your relationship and be happy.

Relationships have no manual, do what works for you and yours.